
Take a
long and lingering look at the two photos before you. It's okay. Just
take a deep breath and really think about what you're seeing.
Both (yes, both) images are equal to 5 lbs.
The
image on the left is 5 lbs. of gross, disgusting, liver invading, body
rotting FAT. Its only redeeming feature is to cushion the liver, kidney
and other vital organs as a means of protection. So, it's okay to have
some. In fact, it's absolutely needed in small amounts.
Now,
ask yourself an honest question. How fat are you? Okay, maybe that's
just slightly too direct and also off point a bit. Let me rephrase the
question. How much fat do you need to lose?
If you could close your eyes and make a wish based on what you know
about where your weight has been in the past and where it should be now,
how much extra fat do you have on your body?

Don't
be shy. This is not the time. It's the time to be honest and reflect on
the reality of your situation and the work that needs to be done to not
only save your life but immediately improve the quality of your life and
of those you love. Being completely realistic, is it 30 to 50 lbs.? Come
up with a solid number or a range, like 40 to 50 lbs., and
keep it on your mind as we finish this brief moment of reflection.
Now
back to the images you were just looking at. Imagine for a few moments
if you were only 30 lbs.'over fat'. Take that photo image on the left
and multiply it 6 times to get a visual image of how that might look.
Pretty solid mass of fat, huh? Now, try and picture it spread across and
mounded on top of your liver and kidneys.
How
would your body look and behave if you traded the image of
gross disgusting fat
with 5 lbs. of sleek, smooth, dense muscle? Did you notice how
much smaller the muscle looks in size? This is the main reason personal
trainers have been trying to convince you to achieve hard earned muscle
and that you will NOT get big and bulky. You will actually look slimmer.
You do want to be slimmer, right?



Most rational people think
it simply requires too much time and energy to even think
about eating right. Doesn't dieting take too much time to
make it work?
Reality Check: It doesn't take any more time to eat healthy than it does to eat poorly.

Everyone around me needs
me - my spouse, my kids, my friends...I feel guilty taking
time out of my day for me when I should put others first,
right?
Reality Check: It has been proven that people who are at or close to their ideal weight, experience a greater sense of control, happiness and productivity.

It is not uncommon
to feel ashamed deep inside leading to bouts of depression.
It is embarrassing to think of going to the gym or having
other people see you fight to get your body back.
Reality Check: The single most important step you take will be your first. Exercise has been proven to fight depression as well as give you a healthy vibrant glow.

Once you've been on diet
after diet, year after year, there is a level of burnout.
They should have a name for it - like Diet Envy - for people
who are addicted to trying new diets and getting
disappointed.
Reality
Check: The day you
actually give up on possibilities, hopeful feelings and
optimism is a sad day indeed. Many people lose ridiculous
amounts of weight and go on to lead extremely satisfying
lives.